There was one person. He, like everyone else, hoping for a miracle, and it happened ... One day, on his way to work, someone has called. The man turned around and saw ... a real magician. "Today is a magical day and I can fulfill your three wishes!", - He said.

There was one person. He, like everyone else, hoping for a miracle, and it happened ... One day, on his way to work, someone has called. The man turned around and saw ... a real magician. "Today is a magical day and I can fulfill your three wishes!", - He said.

- Wow! I know exactly what I want! I want a luxury car with a folding top, - a little thought, the man replied. 
- Well, - said the magician, reached into the bag, pulled out the car keys and handed them to the man.
- The keys? - I said that - I want the car completely!
- Look around you, - answered the wizard.


The man looked to his right and saw a luxury car with a folding top with white leather seats.
- Wow! It's just like I wanted! - Shouted the man got into the car and drove off towards new experiences.
The next day he returned to the same place. The man was fucking angry, so the Wizard asked:
- What happened?
- A whole day ... I went through the city, and wherever I went, everyone looked at me, because I was in that car. But then I began to notice that this city is full of beautiful cars, and people are looking at all the cars ... So it's not what I wanted.
- And what do you want, I can perform a second wish - a magician said.
- I ... I want money! - The man replied. The whole lot of money so I can buy whatever I want.
- Well, - the Wizard said, thrusting his hand into the bag. He took out a checkbook and handed it to the man.
When he opened the checkbook, he saw her his name and what the sum in the account, he immediately slammed it shut, put it in his pocket and said:
- I'll be back tomorrow, because I still have a third desire that you promised to fulfill.
Of course I'll wait for you. -. The wizard replied
the next day at the same location at the same time, a man and magician met again. But again, the man was angry and depressed. Wizard said:
- What happened now?
- I bought everything I wanted. Whenever I see any thing that I like, I immediately bought it. But very soon it became still, if I buy something else. Because I can buy everything, so what's the difference ... You did not give me what I wanted.
- What do you want? - Asked the Wizard.
This time, the man carefully thought out his answer and said:
- I know what I want. I want a fabulously beautiful ... Woman. Can you?
- Well, - said the wizard, and then close appeared extraordinarily beautiful girl with him.
- I'm ready to follow you where you say - she sang sweetly.
- Yes! - Cried the man, grabbed her, and left.
... Two weeks later, he returned to the same place. He was angry and depressed. The wizard asked him:
- What now? I did not give you a fabulously beautiful girl!
- Oh ... She was so docile that I got tired of it quickly. She needed only my money, and typing as she needed, she just left. Some you are a bad Wizard. I pray and ask you what I want, but it's not and it is not like that.
- It's because - said the Wizard - that you never asked for what you want.
- It is not true, I always ask what I want!
- No, - said the Wizard. - You're asking the car, and really want respect, you ask for money, and really want freedom, you ask a beautiful girl, and really want to love. 
Therefore, in order to reach their goal of life, we must learn to deal with their discomforts, to introduce a new quality of life. To do this, honestly answer yourself the following questions:
1) What do I want really? - A range of desires.
2) What do I already have to achieve your life goals? -. It is the range of options
3) What else do I need to do to get what you want? - And try to see the prospect of its development through personal growth.
And, most importantly, we must remember that "not easily catch fish from the pond." Therefore it is useful to look out of the circle of opportunity and move into the circle of desires and not vice versa, so as not to hover in illusions. Then the desired becomes possible!